BUT THERE ARE ALTERNATIVES...
1. BOOKS
2. European made toys have the highest safety standards. They are more expensive, but a few quality toys are all a child needs. Too many toys can foster materialism.
3. Practical gifts- yes they can be fun and useful! Consider: sports equipment, a camera, sleeping bag and tote for sleepovers, bulletin board, a new lunch bag etc...
4. Family activities- passes to the children's museum, zoo passes and of course board games
5. Discernment. All toys shouldn't have to teach moral values, but at the same time should never compromise them. think, "can I imagine Jesus as a child playing with this?" (that sounds really cheesey I know!)
6. Give the real thing! Gifts that model positive adult behavior could be child sized tools, real cookware, art supplies, musical instruments, desk set, stethescope...
7. Gifts that encourage appreciation for God's creation. A fish bowl, plants and watering can, bird house/feeder, telescope or magnifying glass
8. Handmade gifts. Make yourself or check out Etsy
9. Your presence. (get it? presents/presence)
8. Did I mention BOOKS?
One of the gifts we're giving our boys this year is a ream of white copy paper and a mega pack of scotch tape, their two favorite things in the world!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the reminders to give things that that "encourage appreciation for God's creation."
Thanks for this list...We are trying hard to teach our children the value of delayed gratification...so hard when culture wants to convince them they need every new thing.
ReplyDeleteKristina J.